To find Elpenor in Snake in the Grass in Phokis in Assassin’s Creed Odyssey go to the Snake Temple in Phokis.
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The location of Elpenor in Snake in the Grass in Phokis in Assassin’s Creed Odyssey
Walk up the path at the back of the Snake Temple and go into the cave where you will find Elpenor.